Dear Tate
Dear Tate,
Celebrating your 18th birthday is the sweetest thing. I’m sorry you have had to fight so hard and endure so much pain. Childhood isn’t supposed to be like that.
We have always been proud of you, and never more so than now. You have kept your goals in the forefront of your mind even after a devastating diagnosis and debilitating treatment. When your friends were learning to drive you had to learn to walk again. When they left for college and missions you had to stay home to continue your treatment. We know this isn’t how you envisioned your future; no one could have prepared you (or us) for what was to come. Still, your dad and I know we are lucky because not all parents of cancer patients get to watch their children grow up.
My hopes are that you get to experience every freedom in good health and that you continue to pursue your education and your physical well-being. I pray that your good days stop being automatically laced with pain and frustration.
I’ll close with the words of Henry David Thoreau; it’s the same message that has been posted on our refrigerator for most of your life. It’s sage advice, and I hope you take the message to heart.
“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you’ve imagined.”
Happy Birthday, Tate.
Love,
Mom
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Happy Birthday Mr. Tate!
I would call you Mr.T, but you would have to ask your parents who exactly he is. May you enjoy your opportunity to Vote this year. You can also buy a Rifle or Shotgun too…but tobacco not a chance. May you make wise decisions that are true to your beliefs. I admire your courage and strength. May you continue to stronger and wiser.
David, hi! Thanks for the message!
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I am so awed by your whole family. What a hard journey you have been on…I applaud your courage and faith. Tate, keep fighting…I know you have what it takes to win this battle.
Happy Birthday Tate.
You are a very brave and strong young man It is always wonderful to see the love and support from your family . Keep your head up.
Your family has been through so much together but especially you Tate. Your 18th birthday is one of many special bithdays you will have in your life so I wish you a very happy one. We love you and are pulling for you always.
I keep reading this post along with others. I’m thinking this is a tough week for Tate so keeping up the prayers for him; perseverance, courage and wisdom.
Hugs